Episode 17
The Womanifester, Katie J
Today I have with me the Womanifestor herself, Katie J! Katie helps spiritual women manifest their desires without the struggle of limiting beliefs, doubt, and fear! We dive into the power of shadow work, healing and it's involvement in the manifestation process, and so much more!
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Transcript
It took me a while to fully make that leap and trust that if I
Speaker:put all of my energy and love into the creation of a business
Speaker:that would serve the world that it would actually work and that
Speaker:it would actually provide enough for me to live the lifestyle
Speaker:that I want to live.
Speaker:Hello, fellow Earthlings. Welcome to the becoming the big
Speaker:me podcast. I'm your host, Djemilah, Birnie. And together,
Speaker:we will be stepping into our highest potential, exploring all
Speaker:things mind, body, and soul. With justice, major business,
Speaker:you're a spiritual badass solopreneur and a warrior for
Speaker:change, you're ready to expand your impact and leave your old
Speaker:self behind in order to raise your vibration so that you can
Speaker:positively influence your business, your community, and
Speaker:ultimately, the world. Without further ado, let's dive right
Speaker:into it. I have an amazing woman here with me today, Katie J. She
Speaker:helps spiritual women manifest their desires without the
Speaker:struggle of limiting beliefs, doubt and fear. And I am so
Speaker:excited. We chatted a little bit before and I know you guys are
Speaker:going to love this episode. Hey, Katie, how are you doing today?
Speaker:I am doing wonderful. jameelah. Thank you so much for having me.
Speaker:I am so blessed that we got connected on Facebook. I really
Speaker:am excited for this chat. So let's just dive right in. And
Speaker:let's just kind of talk about your story. What like you are it
Speaker:have this amazing business right now where you help women really
Speaker:overcome those limiting beliefs and with your manifestation
Speaker:circles. Now. Can you bring me back to the beginning of your
Speaker:entrepreneurship journey? were you working in a nine to five
Speaker:before? How did you kind of get to where you are?
Speaker:Yeah, so I was working a nine to five, my entrepreneurship
Speaker:journey. I would actually, you know it, my entrepreneurship
Speaker:journey was a part of my greater spiritual journey, I would say,
Speaker:which started back in 2015. I remained in the corporate world
Speaker:for about a month after my first spiritual awakening. And then I
Speaker:shifted to working at retreat centers. And I was working at a
Speaker:retreat center outside of Austin, Texas, and living with a
Speaker:woman who ran her own online coaching business coaching
Speaker:women, women's fitness. And I was just so inspired by how much
Speaker:energy she put into her business. And I was so just
Speaker:taken aback by the results that her clients were getting over
Speaker:online space entirely. And in 2017, I went to Peru, and was
Speaker:sitting in this Plaza, and connected to Wi Fi, and fully
Speaker:realizing that I could do everything that I do from my
Speaker:desk, at the retreat center, from anywhere in the world and
Speaker:realize that there was this wide open possibility for my life and
Speaker:what I could create, if I set my mind to it. So from then on,
Speaker:things started happening, I was introduced to people who started
Speaker:planting ideas in my head and started to tell me to look into
Speaker:this type of business or that type of business. And I was all
Speaker:over the place, jumping around in all different sorts of online
Speaker:spaces that I had no business, like drop shipping, and all
Speaker:sorts of things that were just like felt really unaligned. And
Speaker:I just kept searching and searching and searching and I
Speaker:hired coaches and industry experts to help me kind of
Speaker:figure out where I should be in this online space if I could be
Speaker:at all. And it took me it took me a while to fully make that
Speaker:leap and trust that if I put all of my energy and love into the
Speaker:creation of a business that would serve the world, that it
Speaker:would actually work and that it would actually provide enough
Speaker:for me to live the lifestyle that I want to live and support
Speaker:my boxer puppy. He's five he's not actually a puppy. He's the
Speaker:only thing I have to support right now. You know. We don't
Speaker:need a lot You know, and things just started slowly opening up
Speaker:for me, I tried things I tried courses I tried, meaning
Speaker:launching and leading courses, I tried one on one coaching, I
Speaker:tried group programs, I tried all different sorts of things,
Speaker:just figure out what felt good. And from each time that I tried
Speaker:something new in my business, I took what worked and I let go of
Speaker:what didn't work. And I took what worked and I let go, what
Speaker:didn't work in everything that I made, I invested back into my
Speaker:business and back into the the parts of my business that were
Speaker:helping it to grow, helping it to connect with clients helping
Speaker:to sign clients. And that included a lot of coaching, a
Speaker:lot of mentorship, and getting that one on one support was
Speaker:really crucial for me in my journey.
Speaker:So what how So from what you're saying it sounds like there was
Speaker:kind of a lot of failure on your road to where you are now. So
Speaker:can you kind of dive into that a little bit. Um, and how you took
Speaker:that failure at that time, how you take failure now and because
Speaker:I know that a lot of entrepreneurs out there people
Speaker:who are, you know, striving to create something that very
Speaker:discouraged when that initial idea doesn't work the way that
Speaker:they pictured it, you're gonna dive into that aspect a little
Speaker:bit.
Speaker:Yeah, it might have a lot to do with the fact that what I am
Speaker:coaching, what I am holding space for, and teaching is
Speaker:manifesting, which, if anyone who's died, who has dove into
Speaker:the world of manifesting, has probably realized that it's
Speaker:mostly a fancy word for healing. And so and then a lot of that
Speaker:healing is, we were required to look at that failure and to look
Speaker:at those stories that we were telling ourselves that made it
Speaker:so that that failure happened, or, or that there were parts of
Speaker:that situation that just didn't feel good. And I can dive into
Speaker:more details like I was, I remember launching a course that
Speaker:I just did not feel aligned with. And I did it anyway,
Speaker:because I knew that there was something to learn about the
Speaker:launch process. And actually, I didn't know that my business
Speaker:coach told me that I'm not gonna didn't like, that was my idea.
Speaker:She was like, you should continue, go all the way through
Speaker:the launch process. So you can figure out what you do and don't
Speaker:like. And what I didn't like, was the negative self chatter
Speaker:that came up during it, it was less about, oh, I don't want to
Speaker:write this email sequence, or Oh, I don't want to promote
Speaker:myself on Instagram, because I gotten really comfortable doing
Speaker:that, at that point. It was just this, you know, this product
Speaker:doesn't feel aligned. And so therefore, I'm going to be open
Speaker:to the guidance for what is the next product that that maybe is
Speaker:more aligned, because I'm seeing, I'm seeing her launch a
Speaker:course and doing really, really well. And I'm seeing him launch
Speaker:a course and do really, really well. So surely, I should be
Speaker:doing courses too. But when you actually go through that
Speaker:process, which I'm really glad that I did, I was able to
Speaker:realize like it wasn't the launch or any of those nuances.
Speaker:It was like the actual product. So Okay, next launch, or at
Speaker:least between those two launches, leaving my really
Speaker:leaning into my spiritual practices and inner guidance and
Speaker:asking, like, what is it that I should be offering? And what is
Speaker:it that's gonna feel really, really, really aligned?
Speaker:So do you have any tips for people who it's I get these
Speaker:questions all the time, like, How do I know? What is my inner
Speaker:guidance? How do I know? What's my intuition speaking? And
Speaker:what's maybe just my ego or my limiting beliefs speaking? So do
Speaker:you have any tips for how to kind of discern between those
Speaker:voices?
Speaker:Oh, absolutely. So the best way that I like to really think
Speaker:about it is just this old school cartoons where there's like a
Speaker:devil on the shoulder, and an angel on the shoulder. And
Speaker:that's a little dramatic, right? We don't want to say that the
Speaker:ego is the devil because our ego is not the devil. The ego is not
Speaker:the is not bad, right? our ego has is here to keep us alive and
Speaker:keep us safe. And that's great and good and we need it. But
Speaker:it's not here to allow us to step outside of our comfort zone
Speaker:or to really flourish in life and thrive and ask for and
Speaker:receive a life that we've never lived before. Right That's not
Speaker:the egos job And so the ego will always sound like fear. It will
Speaker:always sound like fear, like scarcity, like not enough, like
Speaker:guilt, like shame, you know, that's that voice. If it sounds
Speaker:like that, then it's gonna be the ego. But if it sounds like
Speaker:it's coming from a place of love, then it's your higher
Speaker:self, then it's your inner guidance, then it's your
Speaker:intuition. Because your inner guidance doesn't say, get off
Speaker:this plane, it's gonna explode. Like, that's not how it guides
Speaker:you, it will just say, you know, what, I think you should cancel
Speaker:that flight. You know, well, in advance, it will guide you well
Speaker:in advance of those things. Like, that's the beauty of
Speaker:trusting it is, it feels like love. Always. And that's, that's
Speaker:the beauty of, of the distinction, too, is that we all
Speaker:we know that what that feels like in our bodies.
Speaker:Yeah. And I also feel like the ego is kind of more just like,
Speaker:looking for attention. Like, it's kind of like jumping up,
Speaker:like, look at me, it can be loud, and it can be very
Speaker:obnoxious. Whereas that inner guidance is not necessarily so
Speaker:loud. It's not so noxious, but it's steady. It's just that
Speaker:consistent feeling over time. That's like, hey.
Speaker:Yeah, exactly. So I'm in a place in my life right now, where I'm
Speaker:like, okay, you know, despite the fact that everything that's
Speaker:going on with Coronavirus, and stuff, like, I really can't,
Speaker:could live anywhere that I wanted to. And I've realized
Speaker:that and I've kind of been feeling the need to move but not
Speaker:know where to go. And so I've just been, like, releasing that
Speaker:question and asking for guidance. And I have noticed
Speaker:that Ooh, ooh, ooh, you know, like, kind of popping up here
Speaker:and there, and I'm just, okay. Well, I see you, you know what,
Speaker:I'm not gonna make any decisions yet. And then a few days later,
Speaker:oh, oh, I'm still here telling you to go here.
Speaker:That's so funny that you bring that up, because that's actually
Speaker:how we landed in Arizona is we I had been feeling for a while,
Speaker:like, we needed to move we needed, you know, something to
Speaker:happen. And so I started asking for signs, and just all kinds of
Speaker:crazy stuff just started happening. Like, there was a
Speaker:farmers market that we used to go to all the time. It's our
Speaker:favorite activity we did every Saturday. And we got kicked out
Speaker:of the farmers market, because I had my purse in my wagon. And
Speaker:the lady told me, I needed to carry my purse because someone
Speaker:was going to steal it. And I told her, oh, that's okay. My
Speaker:child's also in my way. And she like, told us that we weren't
Speaker:allowed to come back to the farmers market. And I was like,
Speaker:This is the weirdest situation I've ever had in my entire life.
Speaker:So I started reflecting on it. And I had this like, download,
Speaker:like, Oh, this is one of those signs that you're asking for.
Speaker:Like, it doesn't make any logical sense. This is one of
Speaker:those things that you're asking for. And then I don't know if
Speaker:you're into Angel numbers or anything like that. But these
Speaker:numbers just kept appearing. And that was when I first got into
Speaker:Angel numbers. I'd never looked up a number before. For some
Speaker:reason, my intuition was like, look it up. And he was like, you
Speaker:need to move right now. And I was like, Oh,
Speaker:okay.
Speaker:So I love that because that's, yeah, that's exactly how we
Speaker:ended up here. It was just over time consistently, kind of
Speaker:seeing these signs and asking for more confirmation, and then
Speaker:finally just taking that leap and be like, okay, I hear you.
Speaker:We're going.
Speaker:Yeah, and so many people are scared that they're gonna miss
Speaker:the sign. You know, they're like, what if I missed it? Like,
Speaker:what if that was it? It's like, you're gonna get it? Yeah,
Speaker:you're in like, safe loving hands. Think of it that.
Speaker:Exactly. And for me, like, because I've definitely been in
Speaker:that point, I'm sure you have as well. where like, was that a
Speaker:sign? Is that a sign? Oh, no. And how does it ask for more?
Speaker:Like, if you don't ask, you know, like, if you need
Speaker:clarification, like, just be like, Hey, what's that assigned?
Speaker:Can you give me another sign to confirm? Like, there's nothing
Speaker:wrong with just point blank asking that?
Speaker:Yes, exactly. I met this very witchy woman in Costa Rica one
Speaker:time who was telling me all about her games that she was
Speaker:playing with the universe. And she was like, I asked for a
Speaker:coconut yesterday, and I got to Oh,
Speaker:do you? That's a great point there. Do you do gamification
Speaker:with your life? You know,
Speaker:it's funny. It's something I just got started doing, which is
Speaker:crazy because I teach manifestation. So you would
Speaker:think that that'd be something that I mean, now. It's something
Speaker:that I'm playing with and I'm encouraging my clients To play
Speaker:with to, but like the other day, or not the other day, it was a
Speaker:month ago, April 1 that I moved into this current apartment. And
Speaker:that weekend, I said, I want flowers from flowers, you know.
Speaker:And then the day that I moved in to my, this house, my landlord
Speaker:was planting flowers all in her garden beds. And I was like,
Speaker:Yeah, not how I had imagined them, but I'll take it, you
Speaker:know?
Speaker:I love that. Yeah, you. Um, it's something that I'm just now
Speaker:starting to get into as well. I have. I mean, I have, I guess
Speaker:I've kind of been doing it for a while I just didn't realize that
Speaker:I was doing it like a big one for me is, when I'm driving. I
Speaker:have done this for a while I didn't realize like, I had no
Speaker:idea. But I would just think, you know, green light. Like
Speaker:whenever I'd be coming up near a green light, I always hit green
Speaker:light. And every time that I'm like, consciously driving, and I
Speaker:think that like I always hit green lights. And so like, I
Speaker:have been trying to incorporate that more into my practice
Speaker:religious, I'm taking things a little less seriously, because
Speaker:that is definitely something that I personally had struggled
Speaker:with. Just over my journey, I have, you know, felt this need
Speaker:to rally overcompensate? I guess because I do get a lot of flack
Speaker:based on my history and how I've gotten to where I am. And so I
Speaker:feel like oh, I need to show up, like extra, you know, business
Speaker:like or extra masculine to be able to fit into the marketing
Speaker:space. And lately, you know, over I mean, really, over the
Speaker:past couple of years, have really been diving into more of
Speaker:the flow and the feminine and really bringing in that into my
Speaker:business as well. Like I did. I did a a manifestation exercise.
Speaker:I don't know if you've heard of the five by
Speaker:55.
Speaker:manifestation challenge. Yeah, it's, it's a pretty big one.
Speaker:And I,
Speaker:I decided to try it with with my marketing business. I've done a
Speaker:lot of the manifestation stuff with my coaching business, but
Speaker:for some reason wasn't transferring it over to my
Speaker:marketing business. And so I decided to try it for my
Speaker:marketing agency. And then within two weeks, I signed on to
Speaker:new like high ticket clients. I was like, Oh, hello.
Speaker:Love it.
Speaker:It works all around.
Speaker:I have never fully committed to the 555 or 333. method. Three,
Speaker:like when you write something 33 times for three days, or
Speaker:whatever it is. Yeah, okay. Yeah. I've never fully committed
Speaker:to it. Maybe I'll give it a try.
Speaker:Yeah, you should definitely definitely try it. There have
Speaker:been a couple times where I had tried it in the past, but I made
Speaker:it to like two days or three days or whatever. I'm starting
Speaker:to
Speaker:get tired.
Speaker:Yeah, so finally I actually
Speaker:because of Tick tock,
Speaker:so I've been like really into Tick Tock lately. And I decided
Speaker:to make this video about the challenge. And I was like, Oh, I
Speaker:have to do it now. And because I had that accountability from the
Speaker:TIC Tock video, I follow through and then saw these amazing
Speaker:results, which was really cool, because then I was able to share
Speaker:that with you with Tick Tock. And yeah, that's one of the
Speaker:other things look, tell. Tell me about that. Like with coaching,
Speaker:like do you feel like that helps keep you accountable for your
Speaker:energy and what you're doing as well?
Speaker:Oh, absolutely. Yeah. Because, and that's probably the best
Speaker:part of it, too, you know, is that I get to show my clients
Speaker:what's possible for them, you know, and you can look at that
Speaker:and see like, and think of it as a huge weight or responsibility,
Speaker:but I think of it I get fires me up, you know, it gets me really
Speaker:excited to like, No, I can't shrink back and play small
Speaker:because if I were my client, I wouldn't tell them to do you
Speaker:know, I would not put up with that. So, you know, situations
Speaker:and, you know, we're constantly I think what's funny about the
Speaker:555 method and the 333 method and writing things over and over
Speaker:again is that I do feel like it's that subconscious Reese
Speaker:like it's, it's how we can reset our subconscious mind. And if
Speaker:our subconscious mind is thinking about something all the
Speaker:time time it's a magnet to it, right? So it's like constantly
Speaker:pulling those things in. But what I think a lot of people
Speaker:don't realize is that there are so many subconscious things to
Speaker:work through that it's the process is really, I mean, the
Speaker:process of manifesting and growing and evolving and
Speaker:whatever is like it's constant. So for me, having a coaching
Speaker:container is that constant support that like that in a
Speaker:weird way that I need to be like, yeah, this is a practice
Speaker:that we're gonna keep doing and keep evolving, and keep up
Speaker:leveling and keep expanding.
Speaker:I love that. So on the topic of manifestation, something I hear
Speaker:a lot in kind of the manifestation community,
Speaker:or people who are trying to learn about manifestation
Speaker:is
Speaker:they get really discouraged if they're not
Speaker:feeling, you know, high vibe or not feeling like they're in this
Speaker:really positive space. And they feel like if they feel down
Speaker:ever, then like, everything is just going to collapse and it
Speaker:can't manifest anymore. What are your thoughts on that?
Speaker:Yeah, I run into that belief a lot too, or that misconception
Speaker:maybe. So. There is such beauty in experiencing the full
Speaker:spectrum of the human emotions. And always, always, always, our
Speaker:emotions are like, what are they? What are they really,
Speaker:they're a biochemical release in the body. What releases those
Speaker:biochemicals, those hormones that make us feel the emotion of
Speaker:sadness, or feel the emotion of anger, feel the emotion of
Speaker:guilt, or shame. It's a thought, it's a thought that triggers
Speaker:that right? So what thoughts are making me feel these emotions,
Speaker:and we were talking before we hit record on Shadow Work, and
Speaker:that's what Shadow Work is, is looking at those thoughts that
Speaker:triggered those emotions. And not saying I'm bad for having
Speaker:those thoughts, I shouldn't have those thoughts. I'm a strong
Speaker:woman, there's no way I should be feeling these emotions, you
Speaker:know, I, I, that goes through my mind all the time. Instead, you
Speaker:just look at them and observe them, and maybe even crazy, it's
Speaker:gonna sound crazy. But imagine that they are your inner child,
Speaker:imagine that they are your inner roommate, imagine that they're
Speaker:the voice, excuse me of your grandmother, right? or wherever
Speaker:that nagging, or that limiting belief or that self conscious
Speaker:thought came from. And really taking that emotion, taking that
Speaker:thought, taking that situation, whatever is triggering you, and
Speaker:separating it from you, and just allowing yourself to experience
Speaker:that to learn from it, to grow from it, to evaluate it, to
Speaker:integrate it. And what I'm talking about is, is the Shadow
Speaker:Work process that I kind of walk my clients through, and really
Speaker:taking those feelings that don't feel good, those thoughts that
Speaker:don't feel good, and integrating them into our path as something
Speaker:that I'm debating how far I should go into this. So maybe I
Speaker:should give an example. Like, okay, for what's going on in my
Speaker:life and example from my life right now, is I need to get some
Speaker:dental work done. I don't have health insurance, I because I'm
Speaker:a full time entrepreneur. And I just haven't gotten to that
Speaker:point yet where I've gotten myself some health insurance,
Speaker:that would probably even cover what it is that I need done. And
Speaker:so I keep telling myself this story, this limiting belief that
Speaker:I can't afford to get the dental work done that I need to or it's
Speaker:going to, you know, put me in some sort of financial stress.
Speaker:And so I put it off, I put it off and I'm in pain, it hurts to
Speaker:chew and I'm like, Wait a second, like, this is not me
Speaker:living my best life, right? Like, I'm experiencing something
Speaker:that does not feel good. And that is kind of perpetuated in
Speaker:my reality by the pain, the physical pain, but it's all the
Speaker:root of it's just like my limiting belief. So I look at
Speaker:that limiting belief. And I'm like, Where's this coming from?
Speaker:Like, where is this? I don't have enough or like scarcity
Speaker:mindset coming from because the truth is like I do have enough
Speaker:You know, if I actually looked at my bank account, like I have
Speaker:plenty To cover this and going through the process of like,
Speaker:shedding light on, whatever it is that's making you feel like
Speaker:shit, whatever it is that making you feel, or that that is caught
Speaker:that triggering those thoughts that's triggering those emotions
Speaker:that's allowing you to experience that low vibration,
Speaker:emotion and doing the work. Like that's the work of manifesting
Speaker:is like, yes, experience those emotions, experienced them to
Speaker:their fullest, but don't experience them for the rest of
Speaker:your life, like, do the processing now, and look at them
Speaker:shine light on them, there's probably going to need to be
Speaker:some sort of forgiveness involved other forgiveness of
Speaker:others forgiveness of self, and then some loving compassion for
Speaker:self love and compassion for others. And people. I mean, when
Speaker:I first heard about this process, and when I was first
Speaker:taken through this process with my mentor, I was like, this
Speaker:seems like is that all I have to do? You know, is that is that
Speaker:it? You know, and that issue, that
Speaker:thing that's holding you back, that limiting belief, that
Speaker:unhelpful story, that timeline that's been, you know, projected
Speaker:onto you by others in your life. All of that, if you just look at
Speaker:it, and you realize, like, Wait a second, I don't have to
Speaker:identify with that I don't have to carry that anymore. I don't
Speaker:have to, you know, let that be my story, I can actually create
Speaker:a new story and a new paradigm for my life and leaning into
Speaker:that. So it's a process of all of it, of experiencing those low
Speaker:vibe emotions, so that you can return to your natural state of
Speaker:experiencing love and experiencing that compassion
Speaker:that exists within all of us.
Speaker:Yeah, so really, using those kind of bad those, I don't like
Speaker:to say bad. But those feelings that are can be
Speaker:compartmentalised as bad. Has the learning experiences like
Speaker:oh, this isn't maybe something I should dig into a little bit
Speaker:more, this is something I should explore more like, why is this
Speaker:coming up? That's, I mean, I think you really hit the nail on
Speaker:the head with that one, that's really how you can use those
Speaker:feelings, those low vibe emotions, to manifest because
Speaker:when you actually accept them, that's the other thing is accept
Speaker:those feelings, you set it at the beginning, we are human, we
Speaker:are here to have a human experience. And part of being
Speaker:human part of the human experience, is feeling those
Speaker:things is feeling those emotions, and so being able to
Speaker:accept them and be like, Okay, I see you, I feel, you know, why
Speaker:are you here. And using that as a trigger, to instead of
Speaker:downward spiral, but using that as a trigger to learn more and
Speaker:to explore
Speaker:more.
Speaker:Absolutely, and the only reason why it's called Shadow Work, or
Speaker:why those things are in the shadow, meaning those emotions
Speaker:or topics or relationships that we don't want to discuss, like
Speaker:they're only in the shadow because we don't want to discuss
Speaker:them. Because we keep pushing them further and further down.
Speaker:But the issue is that they're still there, they're still in
Speaker:your energy body, and there's, you will probably find that they
Speaker:will continue to affect your manifestations until you shine
Speaker:light on them.
Speaker:Yeah, one of the kind of images that I like to use for that is
Speaker:if you're thinking about a dark cave, it's completely black put
Speaker:away, you can't see anything, but if you just like the tiniest
Speaker:little light, if you just like one little tea light candle in
Speaker:there, you're going to create massive illumination, in this
Speaker:case in this cave. And so what you're saying is when you accept
Speaker:and kind of shine that light on that shadow, you really kind of
Speaker:open, open it up and it just even just diving into it a
Speaker:little bit is going to help expand more and more. When you
Speaker:think about like the layers like I know for me in my journey,
Speaker:like there have been lots of things where I dive into and
Speaker:emotions and
Speaker:then I
Speaker:clear them and then later on they start coming up again when
Speaker:I have reached like another level. What do you think about
Speaker:kind of that? Yeah, absolutely. I'm actually reading this book
Speaker:called do less by Kate Northrup, and it's all about cycle
Speaker:sinking, so sinking your life and business With your menstrual
Speaker:cycle, and yeah, I'm loving it so far. And one of the things
Speaker:that she talks about, and she has this whole diagram, so you
Speaker:can imagine, like, you know, an upward slope, but on this upward
Speaker:slope are these loops. And the loops kind of signify our cycle,
Speaker:whether it's a menstrual cycle, the seasons, you know, however
Speaker:you want to think about it, the moon cycles. And as we go up,
Speaker:you know, where we're evolving, we're doing our shadow work,
Speaker:we're kind of processing and integrating those that the
Speaker:shadows and the things that don't no longer service. But
Speaker:yeah, they're going to come up again. But you're going to be at
Speaker:a higher consciousness at that point, and able to look at it
Speaker:and say, Oh, yeah, there's that there's that daddy issue again,
Speaker:or whatever it is, say, like, wow, I can either allow this to
Speaker:impact my decision and make a decision out of fear, or I can
Speaker:make a decision out of love. And just just because it's there,
Speaker:again, doesn't mean that it, you're starting from scratch,
Speaker:it's just, you're human, it's not gonna, you know, you're not
Speaker:a computer that we can just completely wipe clean, you don't
Speaker:want that. Gonna take some layers, I think that's a really
Speaker:great way to visualize it.
Speaker:Yeah, and like, you know, when you are coming back to it from
Speaker:that higher level of consciousness, like you can, you
Speaker:can heal it even deeper, you know, like, I feel like we can
Speaker:only heal based on our current level of understanding. And as
Speaker:we continue to grow, some things, you know, might come
Speaker:back up because we didn't fully get all the way to the core,
Speaker:because we just weren't there yet.
Speaker:Totally or like, as your as you progress on your journey and
Speaker:connection, more and more of the natural loving essence within
Speaker:you, you tap into more and more forgiveness. So maybe you've
Speaker:forgiven that person, you forgiven that person, you're
Speaker:like, I can release you, you know, you haven't like really
Speaker:forgiven them to the point where you feel that you can look back
Speaker:on that situation and only feel love for them and only feel
Speaker:compassion for where they were in their journey and the tools
Speaker:that they had access to at the time. Ah,
Speaker:man, I absolutely love all of this. Now, we were running,
Speaker:running on time here. So before we close out, I just want had a
Speaker:couple more questions for you. First, what is one thing that
Speaker:you're kind of struggling with in your business? And then what
Speaker:is one thing that you're super excited about in your business
Speaker:right now?
Speaker:Hmm.
Speaker:I love the this question. Because two questions. So one
Speaker:thing I am struggling with in my business I actually mentioned
Speaker:before is the cycle sinking. I my cycle has been kind of all
Speaker:over the place recently, and I'm taking a year long course and I
Speaker:are VEDA. To learn more about this, I am actively tracking it
Speaker:and doing my best to because when the whole purpose of cycle
Speaker:seeking is that you don't do much in your business when
Speaker:you're menstruating. Right, so if you can't if you don't know
Speaker:when you're going to menstruate, how do you plan out your and so
Speaker:I think maybe that brings up the larger issue is just the
Speaker:planning of my business. Like, I know what I need, you know, I I
Speaker:for the first time ever jameelah for the first time ever. for
Speaker:June, I wrote out every single day what I need to do my
Speaker:business and it feels so good, but that's what I've been
Speaker:struggling with. It's just that like, organization around the
Speaker:lifestyle that I want to lead chillon when I'm, you know, not
Speaker:feeling like engaging as much during that time of the month,
Speaker:but also just being able to show up in a way that serves my
Speaker:clients because I'm organized and fully planned out and
Speaker:feeling present and ready to go.
Speaker:I love that. And then what are you currently most excited about
Speaker:in your business? Yeah, I
Speaker:am most excited about my women's circles. So like I mentioned
Speaker:before, I've been all over the place when it comes to my
Speaker:offerings for the world and just trying to figure out what how I
Speaker:can serve best really with with my background and talents and
Speaker:gifts and passions. And these women's circles that I'm
Speaker:wrapping up the first round right now and the container that
Speaker:I've created has transformed these women's lives and it's
Speaker:blowing my damn mind. And I'm loving it. And I can't wait to
Speaker:launch the next round in June. And the next round after that in
Speaker:September, like I told you, I'm planning things out. So these
Speaker:women's circles there, it's an eight week program. And we
Speaker:basically learn how to leverage the power of collective
Speaker:manifestation through sisterhood. And we go through
Speaker:the manifestation process, and we talk about really hard
Speaker:topics, we do Shadow Work together, we hold space for one
Speaker:another. And we encourage and uplift one another. And it's
Speaker:been just been this beautiful support group for spiritual
Speaker:women online. So that's what I'm most excited about.
Speaker:That sounds super exciting. You made me excited just listening
Speaker:to you talk about it. That's how you know that it's an aligned
Speaker:and aligned offer right there. So Katie, where can people find
Speaker:you? Where do you hang out?
Speaker:Yeah, so
Speaker:I hang out mostly on Instagram. At with manifestor. So that's
Speaker:WMANI F, E s, t e r, and that same word, well, manifester is
Speaker:my website to win manifester.com. So that's where
Speaker:all the info is. But I mostly keep that up to date, but I hang
Speaker:out on Instagram daily.
Speaker:Okay, awesome. Oh, you guys. I will put the links on to her
Speaker:website and to her Instagram page in the show notes, so make
Speaker:sure to check there and check her out and give her some love.
Speaker:If you guys enjoyed this episode and found value in this episode,
Speaker:which I know that you will. This is amazing conversation with
Speaker:Katie j here. Make sure to share leave us a review tag Katie, tag
Speaker:me. Let us know what your biggest takeaway was. And you
Speaker:know what, Katie, thank you so much for being on. I really
Speaker:appreciated having your presence here today.
Speaker:Absolutely. Thank you for having me. Appreciate
Speaker:it.
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